Outing With Alex 11-11-18

Today was our first osampo (outing), that didn’t involve tickets, platforms and trains, in a few months.

It didn’t take much coaxing either, and I was happy for that. All I had to mention was “bicycle”, and he was game! At first, I assumed that I would be peddling him around Kawagoe on my bike…but he surprised me by pulling out his bike!

As you can see, I got a good workout, trailing along behind him. He showed some mercy today, and didn’t make me RUN.

Let’s see if this happens again next Sunday.

What is Autism?

 

“Autism, or autism spectrum disorder, refers to a range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication, as well as by unique strengths and differences. We now know that there is not one autism but many types, caused by different combinations of genetic and environmental influences.” – Autism Speaks.org

Signs of autism usually become apparent around the age of 2 or 3, with one or more of the signs mentioned above. Early intervention and diagnosis is essential, as well as early treatment. Hand in hand with treatment and education, there are many support groups out there…so that you and your family don’t have to be alone in this, and help you realize there is still a bright future ahead.

For more info, please check out the link below:

https://www.autismspeaks.org/what-autism

Monday Morning Rambling…

Good morning from Tokyo!
Nothing serious, just a life update, because Facebook threatened to un-publish my page if I don’t post something on here…so here goes.
 
My son Alex has nine days of school left, before his school’s summer vacation. He is doing great, can read and write both hiragana and katakana. He was trying his best to teach me some, as well! He is a powerful little guy, and we couldn’t be more prouder.
 
My work and writing are going along. Work itself keeps me busy, moving around Tokyo, but I’m thriving. I think. The kids and parents are both great, showing lots of love and support.
 
“George” is coming along good…got almost eighteen A-4 sized pages written…with more to come. It’s definitely going to be my most complex story, as far as characters and story-lines go. I’m getting better at my back story, but not trying to put all my creative eggs in one basket right away. Need to save some nuggets for later, right?
I’ve been tossing around the idea of publishing all of my “other” (ok, forgotten and neglected) short stories into one book…why do you think? I may just do it, anyway. I still have the option of re-publishing them individually later, anyway. We’ll see. I’ve got so many other projects that have really fallen by the wayside, and I shouldn’t have done that. Some I put alot of work into, like “Ryo” (the screenplay that I had written, based on my children’s book, “The New Neighbor”)…and I really have to get back into it.
“Ryo” is different from my books, because it would involve casting, directing, filming on location, etc. It would be without a doubt my biggest project to date. So, if anyone may be interested in collaborating, let me know. Just make sure you’re in the Tokyo area, and free weeknights and weekends!
 
That’s about it…any comments? Please leave them, following the post, thanks!
 
Everyone have a good one…

You don’t have to look, if you don’t want to (a pledge from Facebook)

Last week (or maybe sooner), a Facebook friend shared a video they found, of a toddler being very much abused by her mother. I’ve seen tons of videos on Facebook, and this one didn’t really stand out…but enough is enough.

Here is a link to the video:

https://www.facebook.com/rildosecret/videos/1769562736437862/

According to U.K’s Daily Mail, the video came from Uganda, and the nanny in the video was found and arrested. She later pleads guilty.

I don’t know if Facebook had anything to do with the video going viral, and the nanny getting caught, but I was curious if Facebook found this video offensive, since I have seen FAR WORSE videos on there, before.

I reported the video and waited for a response.

This morning, I got this message from Facebook:

Are they serious?

Just how bad does it have to be, to “go against” THEIR community standards? Since it doesn’t offend them as an entity, Facebook is asking us to turn a blind eye to it, so it doesn’t ruin our “Facebook experience”. They will help us do that…pathetic.

Which one of their “standards” did it not “go against”?

How would the toddler’s (in the video) parents feel about these standards?

Facebook sounds like they have a checklist, for whether a video breaks their standards…whatever those may be.

What about the COMMUNITY’S COMMUNITY STANDARDS?

There are always going to be trashy sites and people who post videos like this. Also, I fully understand that Facebook can’t vet every video that a user posts online,  but they should start. They certainly have the means and manpower.

Hell, get the community involved as employees…let them vet the videos.

But until then, Facebook should at least use human, moral judgment when a video like this is brought to their attention.

Thank you to whoever made this video viral, and was responsible for getting the nanny caught and arrested.

Until then, Facebook needs to be rated PG-13.